mom , mama or mother

mom comes from the word mama or mother :
a woman exercising control, influence, or authority like that of a mother: to be a mother to someone.
the qualities characteristic of a mother, as maternal affection:
someone that gives rise to or exercises protecting care over something else;

Sunday, April 11, 2010

I made it

so i made it she 16 and not turning back and my son 18 . when i think back it was hard when they where two and four , then hard when ten and eight , then hard now ! you hope you have tough them right from wrong and how to live in life and have a better life them you did or didn't . not all ,some happy the way they grow up but other want to do better .
My son seem to find friends and "girls " that need ! needy kind of messed up how do i protect him , how do i teach him not to be the "fixer" or caregiver ? i don't want to have in that role his whole life . i know he that kind of kid , hello want to be a cop (1/2) way there ! and works at animal shelter and wants to take in all the animals no one wants . i feel bad saying this out loud but don't be the one to take in all the people don't want . (OK not that bad ) but you know what i mean . please he can barley take care of him self .
My daughter 16 two more years of high school then off to college . great student , great athletic , has many friends and i sure hope she find a place in life .
Iam not sure how i feel about this .her good friend for years ,i was talking to her mom and she said her daughter now 16 also wanted to go on birth control said just in case ?! as 8 teens are prego in there home high school one they both know . both Hung out with her in her younger days middle school year . so what would you do ? these is something weighs on me as a parents and 16 once , or 17 or 18 etc . so what do i do ?what do i think ? i did not say a word (bad i know ) am sure i was a little shocked , on her respond to her daughter . i feel that was responsible of the teen and as a parent i feel horrible if my teen got prego and it is a preventable issue . now don't get me wrong we take open about waiting , the right person , school does to private you know and many other issue with our teens around sex .

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