Just another week raising kids

Teens and Preteen . wow where did this time go so so fast . it amazing to think . scares me some it be over some day .i don't know what my life be like with out my four children .
Do you ever wish you could be doing something more with your life . i have two neighbors this year die of cancer and my grandfather did , my neighbor mother did and so on we all know many Brian grandma has it now . i want a cure for my child . i want to say i wont die from it and i wan the cure for me but possible at least so my children don't have to die from it , if it where to strike them or one of there family members . so what do i do with this feeling . i want more , i want to do more . i do small steps but i am not sure it enough . i pledge to three day walk , i have don't the candle walk (sorry forgot the name for a minute it will come ) i pledge there also . all does not seem enough in the big picture . something to think about .

I want a normal Family

ok first kid what normal ? second i thought we where pretty normal family . We eat dinner together 5 plus nights a week , we go to church , my kids do extra activies . we are married have four kids and a dog . laughing . what normal that her new thing ! so tonight set her off as we are not normal as we where not eatting at 5:30 like we usally do and i asked if she get ready for basketball before sitting down with dinner and she flip why are we not a normal family like everyone else that eat a 5:30 then get ready for basketball . i really almost lost it . my oldest was a lot like this but i took it as part of his disorder and other issue . i never know other could not be so flexable . she also at that age phase no one likes me ... you yelled at me when you just said something to her no one yelling not even a raised voice . how i love preteen years .....

teeens and Dating

oh why ? i know i know we have put it off as long as we can i think ,she will be 16 in a few weeks and i think we need to except it . i know i don't think she should have to wait until 18 and date but i just worried . i think she like bad boys which drive me crazy . maybe i should not feel this was . She is a good student , may extra activities , decade to sport , many friends , has goals and desire in life .But i still feel she 16 . you can make a lot of dumb choices and the guys she choice to like hum less to my desire and her dad . Bad i know i am sure i sound like a raciest , snob you name it but it my child .
i am not sure how i am going to do this two more time . i know we all lived through dating .This part stresses me out so much .. what to do ? lighten up some i am sure but i dont want to go into this all blind and just like what ever she 16 !

how do you get your children to believe what they do now

Could haunt them later . Like facebok or My space or even a speeding ticket my oldest got . It will show up when you apply for a job . your going to be a cop ! or even credit . or my daughter or son to be careful on facebook my space what on there is for all to read and see . and is that what you want to resent you ? I just think they get it and i get everyone doing it ahhh ..