Why do my girls need to grow up so fast so my 11 year old had a busy day

First i get a call she wants to join band instead or play Villon . I mean a text . then i get a call she lost a tooth and the tooth fairy needs to come . but my oldest which was with me get a text or many text about what happen to her today . She got her period . Oh no am so not ready . Why do little girls can not be little girls .. she handling it well but it always makes me sad . I wish this did not happen to girls until they are least 15 or 16 . 30 be good . lol
So my younger one remember 10 months only younger say see mom and me are the only one with out it , lol see i don't get one as i take a shot for my head aches Depo so i don't get one and no more head aches . I just want them to be kids .. I was hoping i had another 6 months or years for that matter until this day came . Always mades me sad .

How to teach my teen to grow up ..

I think that what i want to do . He did not do great this semester at college . and he work while home and blow his money well my words lol . instead of saving some while he short my thoughts . I just don't know how to help , teach or show him how to grow up . I feel he still wants to act like a 16 year old and now almost 20 year old .
He a great kid , kind , loving , no drugs . so what to do ?
Just a little sad , little frustrated and just lost ...

So christmas is down ..and done !

It was wonderful and i dont feel the let down i usually do and i am enjoying my week off or should say 9 days off . We decide to send our oldest dd to her hockey high school tournament by her self .it was 6+ hours each way for three days in a small town with nothing for girls to do . so we took the money we saved and change our ceiling to a "racetrack ceiling " and smooth which it was not and drive dh crazy and paint living room and hopeful kitchen but we will see if we get time . Poor dh working harder then he does when he at work .
Me i spent 1/2 today and yesterday shopping with three girls (two today ) drop oldest at school coach bus at 5:45am, this morning . wow these girls and shopping wear me out . And i have goal i been doing i want done this week each day and am working through the list so am happy with that . DC book keeping , Christmas stuff put away . declutter the kitchen . (these done ) now tomorrow work on dc curriculum room . (goal for tomorrow) plus take girls to a movie then pizza with a group of friends ! that the start of my week off . oh yah it only monday !!

Tree up Presents wrap

wrap about 40 presents today 10 dc . 5 to 6 each of my own children and my moms and a few others . I still need to write all the cards for and package gift cards and cash .
Tree up son home from college so he set it up and girls put ornaments on it . And he even took the girls to store to buy their new ornament my grandmother their great gma send them money to get a new one each year . One more day of shopping run to mall vs and bath and body run . Finish food shopping as snow coming in boohoo . Really it white enough out side you think ?
I got a dumb cold feeling blah stuff head in fog so much fun when i have so much i want to do .
Well that it for now i have many things to say but wont tonight .