it all control i know am a mother of control and i hate feeling out of control am sure that seems from my child hood as i had no control in an additive family . i had to create my own control (another post ) back to control of teen my son will be 19 on Monday i know i know i am only 25 still Carnot be right but he is . so first this week end which we are out of town he wanted some friends to stay here hum (two girls ) hum not when we are not home ok so they decide 6 of them are going camping just hit me boys girls camping . i know i know am getting old and so are they . i think the first time i went camping boys and girls i was 16 .
now my 16 yr old having a fit she got to come with us this week end and wants to stay home . now we did at 16 leave our son partly home for the week end but different children different sex ? maybe any way maybe next year i might die of a panic attack but some day i need to let her free .
Really am the kind of parent that lets her children have a enough room to hang them self a little with out hopeful getting to hurt and can still be there to pick up pieces . i grow up and so did dh with no rules tons of freedom to do what we wanted when and where . i think i want to find and keep the middle ground for our children . i hope we are
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