Well that not why i came to post .i came to post as a parents why or when did children think it ok not to get the answer no ! really when we where told no did we act like our children or should say mine . where did it all go wrong . when did children think everything belongs to them or entitle to them ? yes we all know some adults like this i think with a little younger generation then me think that but i sure did not want to raise my kids that way ?
i think my kids are not spoiled but privileged in some way private school , comp sports , lot of parent involvement . i try to make sure they are not "spoiled " . like my middle child will ask if we go to store for a treat will if she ask then next time and this time answer no . i will by you a treat when i feel you get extra one or if think you need one . not just because you ask . not sure i am phasing that correctly but you get what i mean . by no mean my children have best clothes or toys . on other hand they have a lot . but we only buy for holiday birthday and holidays .
But the word No seems to be taken hard around her. is it only my spoiled children or just a learning process they have to learn .
Well we are going out of town for one of our daughter tourament for the week end so hope all well and not to many melt down from the three girls !
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