so we can breath but still i think i just want this month over

so the car back . i am still pissed that this women does not get in no trouble .i sure don't understand sometimes . it crazy if you ask me .oh my how do you protect your children from people like this . he was just being a good guy helping a friend out when this friends mom took total advance of him . for all you parents that have children say under 10 please remember this phase will pass and they will be one of your easier times in parenting. i keep asking my self this last year from my son going to 18 to 19 when do you stop parenting , do we ever . i am still close to my parents ? we are blessed nothing happen and everything ok . a little parking ticket we have to pay .

what a day !

now where to start or how to explain . my son a lovely good kid , giving and always as husband say want to be the hero , help everyone .................... well this time it got to him . i always say he take in all stray animals ...
well his friends mom took his car and has not returned it. it been hum 30 hours now . left my son 19 , 16 year old daughter and 8 yr old son home alone and just never came home . never called tell her daughter where she at . omg i wanted to kill this women . first how do you take something and not return it . say your going to store and not come back for a day or two .. at least i am thinking she show up at home soon . really how long would you leave your kids alone with out them knowing where you are . really . sorry if this is not making any senses as this does not make sense to me . crazy !! who the heck are these people really . ok really in son defence , if an adult a friends mom and say can i borrow your car to grab milk of course he going to say yes . right she going to store be right back . omg ........ ok all messed oh kicker police can not do anything for 30 days as he gave her the keys . so unless she get a ticket , or park it in wrong spot . nothing for 30 days .. until stolen. what crazy to me this is not a chain saw someone borrowed this is a car.
ok i still cannot think straight and well i better stop my heart racing again .
here the question how do i teach him to keep him self safe and not be taken for a ride !!!

well i though many time this week to post but just living in my own world .
busy with work ,busy with back to school shopping . i have two side to this one i am not sure all the over dose of back to shopping .but on other hand i like to get it out of way and not worry for another 6 month or year until someone needs something . (ok with 4 kids never that long with out someone needing something ) i already know in a few month one needs a new jacket for sure and possible another basketball shoes . so my middle daughter was bugging me last few weeks about back to school shopping and well i decide to bit bullet and said 100.00 each little ones so i take three girls shopping one spent all money , other spent 60% or so and other spent her 60% also plus got uniform pants (see this dont count in budget hum their or mine ......... hehe i love to hate uniforms by the way i would say i spend around 200.00 on them plus a few more sprit clothes a year so 300.00 but to hate as i need to buy here everyday clothes as she has dress down days ,week end fun things so we have to buy two sets of clothes.
so here where my heart is torn i love back to school shopping , i think every child deserves to feel good about going back to school and if and it does have to do with looking nice and wearing new items .
so what should be spent on back to school shopping ?
i say 4 kids three and son in college he dont cost much like i buy hair cut, shoes and sock ? that about it for him.
but three girls shoes usually two pairs like running or basketball and everyday . one is usually cheap other kind of spendy . then clothes , uniforms and then school supplies . not sure i want to add ....................
ok now am depressed and nothing in saving this month i see .
i really dont go over board either , one daughter youngest spent all here money one outfit pants , shirt and sweatshirt , other shirt and shoes all for 100 . that just example does anyone else hate spending 40 to 50 for sweatshirts for there kids (these are school ones , sport ones and or name brand ones they all want . ) crazy three sweatshirt 100 or more ..
ok off my rage of school shopping .....................

well back to work back from vacation and well i enjoy having time off

i missed the girls a little but it was nice break from us and they had a blast . thanks mom for help taking them while we where gone .
37 days left before school start and wow a lot to do first open house tonight , many doctor appointments and shopping . uniforms to buy never ends does it .
my son goes back in two weeks to college and moving to a new college .
My youngest daughter dani will be 10 this month .
so much going on ...