how do you get your children to believe what they do now

Could haunt them later . Like facebok or My space or even a speeding ticket my oldest got . It will show up when you apply for a job . your going to be a cop ! or even credit . or my daughter or son to be careful on facebook my space what on there is for all to read and see . and is that what you want to resent you ? I just think they get it and i get everyone doing it ahhh ..

when do you stop steping in .. how old is to old

my son a way at college 18 only (hear that only hint hint ) so he has some grant money and small load for school . so i want to set a budget for him , rent paid books and classes . so food and gas and saving and spending money . so where the line and what happen if he cannot follow it ? where my line . how do i help him make better choices then i have in my life . my whole life money i have had issues . why i really don't spend tons on me (i have not bought a new pair of jean for hum 9 yrs when my last dd was born (i mean i bought stuff really cheap clearance , or used ) so i am not running ran in the 90's clothes . well most anyway lol
so i just want to move his money to saving give him a budget allowance sort of but it is his money really
chastity what you think ? you think we all want to teach our children this . my daughter school had assembly on it today . Good Catholic high school ! but i worry all the talk in the world would of listen if i want to ? how do you believe a 16 yr old . you think and hope she got so much going for her a great high school , great grade and a great athlete to help get into a college she wants . does she know one lousy night could be l ost in that minute ? so what do we do as a parent. i was a smart kid and when i decide i was ready to have personal relationship i went and got birth control (smart in some ways dumb in others ) another fine line i never wanted to be a dumb blind mom or a mom that walks around with blinder not there for my children ..

Pity party on me i am feeling

that sum it up ! just feeling stressed , a lone and i am trying to look at all postive in my life and i truly think for most part make our own bed ! make our own chocies . mostly i am ok with chocies . i have and would not change a lot . not even sure what i change .
ok i am talking in circle just going to have my pitty party and be over soon

my youngest daughter

i am a proud mommy . she has this friend for a while now and she final told her she not her friend anymore and she needs to stop calling my sister names . she stood up for her sister . i have always told my kids you might not always have mom and dad but you will have your sibling longer . i always hope they will be close and most time back fired on me . they fight , dont respect each other and well not close . i mean my girls are close not by choice they are 10 month a part . but sibling love came through once again against a friend ship . this happen Friday or Thursday now last night she said she was friends with this friend but told her she Carnot call her sister name and be mean to her or she wont be her friend . i love that child! it is so her personality .